1. Consult the Couple
The best place to start is by going straight to the source—the to-be-weds. You might also ask them to share some photos they’ve pinned to their inspiration board so you have a visual guide to help get your search started in the right direction.
We recommend starting your search around the six-month mark. There a lot of dresses on sale. That will give you plenty of time before the wedding day to find something you love, schedule fittings and have any alterations made if necessary.
3. Consider Their Colors
Some brides prefer that their moms wear a color in the same palette as the bridal party (say a mauve or plum gown if the bridesmaids are in lilac or lavender) or even match it exactly, but there’s no set rule that all the dresses must coordinate. The key thing to remember is that you want to complement (and not clash with) the day’s hue. Metallics, navy, blush, chocolate brown and jewel tones are all beautiful and safe bets for a mother of the bride or groom.
You don’t want to upstage the couple of honor, but that doesn’t mean you’re limited to frumpy, conservative or matronly looks either. There are plenty of options available that will give you that glamorous look you’re after without being over-the-top or stepping on anyone’s toes.